Can I see your closet? // The Homebody

A few days ago, I had my dear friend Krista over for brunch. Hospitality in the form of authentic moments makes my heart soar. She is one of those special humans in my life who somehow adds meaning to every moment, and turns avocado toast into an opportunity for depth and soul connection. While chatting about fashion, the Nasty Gal dress I was wearing, and the typical girl stuff, she excitedly let out a question that took me into a whole new realm. 

“Can I see your closet?!”

Interesting. I don’t think a girl friend had asked me that since high school. With great surprise but zero hesitation, I said “sure”, and before I knew it, I was proudly opening the grand, old wooden doors of my vintage apartment wardrobe. I was excited and relieved, actually, because I had just reorganized, and had she asked this question a week prior, I would have been embarrassingly scrambling to get it in order.

Just as I slid the doors open to showcase the left side of my closet that housed all of my dresses, I felt time freeze. Emotions were running wild. What was I feeling? Why was I feeling it?
It hit me that JUST one year ago, exactly around this time, I was staring that closet in the face again for the first time in months. During my devastating and heart wrenching separation, I was essentially homeless. The few limited belongings I held dear were living in my car…clothing included. 

One small suitcase kept some wrinkled linens, blouses, jeans, dresses. I still remember how emotional I got when after months without a place to call home, without a closet of my own, I glanced into an empty closet filled with hangers and I broke down in sobs. These were the mixed emotion kind of tears…but truly, they were tears of gratitude. Suddenly, a simple closet filled with hangers that I’d normally take for granted became an altar of thanks and worship. 
Just one year ago, I took some of those wrinkled articles of clothing from my car and placed them onto the hangers, one by one…knowing that I could now take a breath and rest for a moment. Krista’s simple question reminded me of how grateful I am for the life I have worked so hard to abide in. The blessing it is to have a place to call home. And how thankful I am to have friends like her to proudly share it with. 

10 thoughts on “Can I see your closet? // The Homebody

  1. Wait… I want to make avocado toast talks into a regular thing too!! This is a wonderful blog post and you truly have a gift for expressing all the emotions and personal growth you’ve experienced ❤ It's really all about finding daily things to be thankful for!!

    1. Cassie, your love and support means the world to me! I’d love to have avocado toast talks with you!!! ❤

    1. Vanessa, thank you soooo much for taking the time to read and encourage me! I am so grateful for you today.

  2. Amazing post from a woman full of strength and resilience. Thank you so much for sharing your story. We forget sometimes how strong we are but to look back and see where we’ve come from speaks volumes!

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